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2026

April 8-9, 2026
MATSA (Massachusetts Chapter of ATSA)
Off the RACK: a Kink-Affirming Perspective on Balancing Risk and Safety
April 16-17, 2026
MnATSA Conference (Minnesota Chapter of ATSA)
  • Securing Sexuality
  • BDSM & Pornography
May 21, 2026
Cleveland Clinic's Pride in Practice: Strategies for LGBTQ+ Inclusivity Conference
Identity, Idioms, Initials & Insults...Getting the Language Right
June 18, 2026
International Forensic Psychiatry Lecture Series
Contextualizing Kink: Understanding, Affirming, and Assessing Erotic Minorities.

2025

March 13, 2025
South x Southwest (SXSW)
You Killed My Wife:
The Role of A.I. in Sex and Intimacy (Panel Discussion)


April 7-8, 2025
APA Division 36 (Society for the Psychology of Religion & Spirituality) Mid-Annual Conference
Antisemitism in Sexology: A Historical Overview

May 30th, 2025
The Cleveland Clinic' Pride in Practice: Strategies for LGBTQ+ Inclusivity Conference
Polyamorous and Non-Traditional Family Structures

June 20th, 2025
WiATSA Annual Conference
  • Kink Cultural Competency 101
  • Securing Sexuality: Re-Wiring Our Most Intimate Connections
  • BDSM & Pornography: A Culturally Competent Approach
  • Kink-Affirming Risk Assessment

​September 16th, 2025
ATSA (Association for the Treatment and Prevention of Sexual Abuse) National Conference
On the RACK: a Kink-Affirming Perspective to Balancing Risk and Safety
Partnerships

January 25th, 2024 Center for Intimacy Recovery, Webinar Kink Affirming Practice- Part 2

March 29th, 2024 Ackerman Institute, Webinar Securing Sexuality: Emerging Issues at the Intersection of Intimacy and Technology

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April 9th, 2024 University of Florida, Webinar Securing Sexuality: Emerging Issues at the Intersection of Intimacy and Technology

April 26-28th, 2024 PenguiCon, Ann Arbor, MI I Promise... You're Not a Pervert Ask A Sex Therapist Anything How To Buy A Sex Toy

February 3rd, 2023 The Buehler Institute, Webinar Kink-Aware Practice: What Your Clients Wish You Knew (But Are Afraid You'll Ask)

February 3rd, 2023 The Buehler Institute, Webinar Kink-Aware Practice: What Your Clients Wish You Knew (But Are Afraid You'll Ask)

February 9th, 2023 Reddit, Live Chat ​Ask Me Anything hosted by r/socialwork

February 17th, 2023 The Buehler Institute, Webinar Conducting a Kink-Affirming Risk Assessment

February 22nd, 2023 Ackerman Institute, Webinar Kink-Affirming Practice: An Introduction for Future Clinicians

March 14th, 2023 Private Medical Group, Webinar Supporting Mixed Desire (Vanilla-Kink) Partnerships

March 17th, 2023 The Buehler Institute, Webinar Caregiver Kinks: Everything You Need To Know About Imaginative Power Exchange

March 21st, 2023 University of Florida, Webinar Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diversities (GSRD): An Intro

March 22nd, 2023 Wayne State University, Guest Lecture Kink-Affirming Practice: An Introduction for Future Clinicians

March 27th, 2023 University of Maryland, Webinar Kink-Affirming Practice: An Introduction for Future Clinicians

May 12th, 2023 The Buehler Institute, Webinar ​In The Shadows of Consent: DV, SA, and BDSM

June 3rd, 2023 University of Michigan, Webinar Sexual Health Certificate Program Alumni Weekend

June 7-11th, 2023 AASECT Conference, Presentation Caregiver Kinks: Everything You Need To Know About Imaginative Power Exchange

June 16th, 2023 The Buehler Institute, Webinar ​Becoming a Kink-Affirming Therapist

August 24-25, 2023 IITAP, Webinar Kink-Affirming Practice: A Two-Day Intensive Seminar

September 8th, 2023 National Center for Victims of Crime, National Training Institute In the Shadows Of Consent: Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, and the BDSM Community

September 29th, 2023 Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health, Webinar Conducting a Kink-Affirming Risk Assessment

November 2nd, 2023 Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, Webinar Working with Mixed-Desire Couples

November 30th, 2023 Congregation Shaarey Zedek Pillow Talk: Life Lessons from a Sex Therapist

December 7th, 2023 Center for Intimacy Recovery Kink Affirming Practice- Part 1

January 29th, 2022 Sexuality Training Institute, Webinar Conducting a Kink-Affirming Risk Assessment

February 8th, 2022 AmeriCorps VISTA, Workshop Thin Ice & Burned Bridges: Conflict Resolution Skills

April 30th, 2022 Society for Sex Therapy and Research, Presentation Rising Above Anti-Kink Bias in the Mental Health Community

September 15th, 2022 Sexuality Training Institute, Webinar Conducting a Kink-Affirming Risk Assessment

September 23rd, 2022 U of M School of Social Work Continuing Ed, Webinar Caregiver Kinks: Everything You Need to Know About Imaginative Power Exchange

​March 25th, 2021 Sexuality Training Institute, Webinar Kink Aware Practice: What Your Clients Wish You Knew (But Are Afraid You'll Ask)

​July 30th, 2021 Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health, Webinar ​​Kink Aware Practice: What Your Clients Wish You Knew (But Are Afraid You'll Ask)

October 7th, 2021 Tennessee Alliance for Sexual Health, Webinar Conducting a Kink-Affirming Risk Assessment

October 22nd, 2021 Sexuality Training Institute, Webinar Conducting a Kink-Affirming Risk Assessment

October 29th, 2021 Society for Sex Therapy and Research, New York, NY Fall Case Conference Presentation

September 19, 2020 CARAS Webinar Clinical Cases: Working with Complicated Situations Involving Kink-Involved Clients

September 19, 2020 CARAS Webinar Clinical Cases: Working with Complicated Situations Involving Kink-Involved Clients

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Almost everything in this presentation was new to me- I could use another session with this presenter. She was excellent and confident, so very knowledgable!

Loved how she presented all of the elements of the case and demonstrated how the diagnostic process had gone awry in the past due to stigma and lack of awareness of kink and BDSM practice. She was great at explaining how she gathered the right info to have a good grasp on the context for the case discussed. I learned a lot!

I learned that breath play is never "technically" safe, as well as elaboration on some distinctions within the BDSM acronym.

I believe I have a new sensitivity towards clients with kink practices. I became aware of some implicit biases I hold.

Presenter was so dynamic!

Fantastic! Well Prepared. Well Informed. Bring them back!

​Appreciated the contract of consensual kink and abuse.

​Great workshop. Presenter engaged the audience, spoke clearly, and provided a lot of valuable information.

​Excellent and informative. Raised cultural awareness, diversity, ethical practice, ambiguity.

​Thank you! Learning objectives were achieves with great respect to all with an emphasis on not judging any of our clients/individuals. Seek understanding. Don't pathologize. Thanks!

​Well done, introspective and knowledgeable.

​Great presentation- very skilled presenter.

​Top notch! One of the best presentations (by far) I've ever attended. Kudos to NASW-MI for bringing in this presenter. ​

​Really applicable to issues going on at work, also will use personally

​Wish we had more time w/ her to hear more examples, details and questions

​Awesome

​Really well presented, loved the storytelling.

​Really engaging and useful info. Dynamic Speaker

​Great!

​Good Information, it would have been nice t have more examples of how to use these tools in different situations.

​Presentation was great, definitely some strong takeaways. Will use personally even if my organization doesn’t adapt around this type of model.

​I thought very actionable and appreciated that gave the reasons behind it > Glasser’s Basics Needs

​Great clear information, I liked the step by step methods

​I really enjoy stories and how they related to the topic being presented.

​Held great value, wished she would have addressed more about how to share these tools w/my team.

​Great presenter, very informative and applicable to a myriad of workplace environments /conflicts/conversations.

​Great presentation and information

​Wonderful presenter: Talks on nonviolent communication as highly valuable & Images from interpersonal thru organizational levels were helpful.

​Talks very fast, hard to hear – good practical information.

​Great examples and enthusiasm for the subject matter.

​Resource examples were appreciated and allowed audience to connect w/speakers.

​Handouts/takeaways of information would have been helpful. Great presentation.

​Good tips personally and professionally.

​"The most progressive and informative workshop that I have been to!"

​"Great job offering an affirmative approach. I love that you explain the difference between DV and kink."

​"Very knowledgeable and fun. Interesting facts, laid back and all around awesome!!"

​"Great workshop- really important information that should be available to more people."

​"Thanks so much for teaching that 50 Shades is not consensual or healthy! Eye-opening info...love the non-judgemental approach. Great ideas for clinical practice!"

​"Very educational and informing. I did learn a lot about the difference between BDSM and DV. Great for human service professionals as well as students going into the field."

"Learned more about kink than I knew. Very interesting topic!"

"Probably the most effective and engaging NASW sessions I’ve been to."

"Top notch! One of the best, most professional, and most informative (fact filled) presentations I have ever attended. Kudos to NASW-MI for bringing in this presenter."

"Thank you! Learning objectives were achieved with great respect to all with an emphasis on not judging any of our clients/individuals. Seek understanding, don’t pathologize! Thanks!"

"Excellent and informative. Raised cultural awareness, diversity, ethical practice, ambiguity."

"Great workshop. Presenter engaged the audience, spoke clearly, and provided a lot of valuable information."

"Appreciated the contrast of consensual kink and abuse."

"Fantastic! Well prepared. Well informed. Bring them back!​"

"The most progressive and informative workshop that I have been to!"

"Great job offering an affirmative approach. I love that you explain the difference between DV and kink."

"Very knowledgeable and fun. Interesting facts, laid back and all around awesome!!"

"Great workshop- really important information that should be available to more people."

"Thanks so much for teaching that 50 Shades is not consensual or healthy! Eye-opening info...love the non-judgmental approach. Great ideas for clinical practice!"

"Very educational and informing. I did learn a lot about the difference between BDSM and DV. Great for human service professionals as well as students going into the field."

"Learned more about kink than I knew. Very interesting topic!"

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