"I've worked with couples who would argue that once a week is too much, and others who would say it's not nearly enough," says Stefani Goerlich

Read the full article here:
https://www.insider.com/how-often-do-couples-have-sex

Stefani's talks to hosts Ryan and Shira about what Kink Aware Therapy is and how to find one:

​Listen to the full podcast here:
https://omny.fm/shows/let-s-go-there-with-shira-ryan/covid-is-driving-me-crazy??​​ 

“I don’t consider [love languages] to be an evidence-based practice, but I do find it to be a very useful tool and use it in all of my work with couples,” says Stefani Goerlich, a Detroit-based psychotherapist. “I have found that 8 times out of 10, whatever the issues are that my client-couples bring to the table, they are rooted in a fundamental misalignment in how each partner gives and receives love.” ​

Read the full article here:
https://ermagazine.com/relationships/talk-to-me-baby/

“By taking tests such as these with your partner, you learn so much about what you might have in common but have been too afraid to talk about,” says Goerlich, whose clients often say they feel embarrassed or ashamed of what they want to do sexually.

Read the full article here: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32601238/bdsm-test/

“Most phobias are rooted in some traumatic precipitating event that is not processed in a healthy way, resulting in a lingering fear.” 

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​https://www.mic.com/p/will-i-be-scared-of-going-outside-even-after-coronavirus-is-over-22837020

"For the first time in many of our lives, we have the opportunity to decide our values without the pressure of being watched."

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 https://www.mic.com/p/quarantine-doesnt-suck-for-everyone-apparently-22827568

"Goerlich explains that one of the hallmarks of a healthy poly dynamic is that partners are allowed to have negative feelings and talk through them. “It’s okay to say, ‘I’m not comfortable with this partner,’ or ‘I’m jealous and I wish you could stay home tonight.’"
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Read the full article here: https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/relationships/when-your-partner-asks-for-an-open-relationship